Notes
iāve always considered myself a community-minded person. but am i actually? are two people considered a community? because i feel like one is the maximum number of healthy relationships i can sustain.
iām afraid that iām too shallow to actually generate any interest, to be the one people go to for advice or opinion.
my palms have a memory of their own
i want to be alone. i donāt want to be lonely. even when i feel nothing, i feel it completely. i second-guess every decision i make and every thought i have. iām afraid to ask for help sometimes. iām afraid to be judged or called a freak. i need constant reassurance and itās embarrassing. i donāt want to be this way anymore, sorry…
iām telling the browser that iām a human, though iām not sure that i still am
Iāve been thinking about the border between friend love and romantic love for a long time… and maybe itās not even a border, maybe itās more like unknown territory… I think we lack a vocabulary to describe all the subtle nuances and forms that relationships can take…
anyway, I ļ¬nd it a shame that friendship is often on the sidelines, e.g. phrases like āwe are just friendsā or āfriendship with beneļ¬tsā ā as if friendship alone isnāt enough, isnāt a beneļ¬t on its own…
argumentation will achieve nothing; we must create symbols, make myths, and imagine miracles
select individuals who could bring a small part of the divine into the mundane.
when you base your entire worth on how useful you are to others, itās fuckin hard to ļ¬nd out that everyone else can function just as well without you. nobody misses you. nothing can stop working because youāre not there. youāre just a fuckin npc. just a guy walking by.
iām thinking of ending things